Friday, 13 May 2016

A Sense Of Belonging

This past month has been a rollercoaster but an incredible one. We have now been in our new house for just over a month and from day one it has felt like home. The drive on moving day from our old town to this one had a feeling of driving somewhere that we have always meant to be. I'm not saying our old house didn't feel like home, because it did, just the town wasn't home. It didn't have the feel our new one does, I felt isolated and a little alone once Mr C had left for work. The house we lived in was definitely home but as they say you make a house a home. That was because it was where our family was.

When I walk through our new door, or even see it, I get a warm fuzzy feeling. The boys fill it with laughter and fights but that's what brothers do. They fill our home with love and once the door is locked at night and it's us four its an incredible feeling.

It feels like this is somewhere we were always meant to be. I walk Finley to preschool and I smile & say hi to people I don't actually know but because we live here we do, if that makes sense. I feel a sense of community and I know if we needed anything there would be someone there. 

The other best bit is friends. Our friends are literally just up the road and to have them over for drinks, a cup of tea or just a simple catch up really is amazing. To know if we needed someone to look after the boys they would be there - like the other evening my best friends husband looked after the boys, as she was at work, and we had a school meeting to go to.

I feel a sense of belonging, I'm where I'm supposed to be. And we are all so incredibly happy!

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34 comments:

  1. Aww! It sounds like you are so so happy where you are living! You look it too. Lovely photo x

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  2. I'm so glad you've all settled in and that you're happy in your new home! Thanks for linking up to the #BinkyLinky xx

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  3. So glad you've settled in so well. It's always a bit strange moving house! #justanotherlinky

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  4. So glad you've settled in so well. It's always a bit strange moving house! #justanotherlinky

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  5. Aw so glad you've settled in! Moving can be so stressful but so worth it! #justanotherlinky

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  6. Sounds perfect- glad you are all settled in and starting to enjoy your new home. #justanotherlinky

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  7. ah fab - sounds like you've found your forever home :) weve been looking for ours for ages and found it finally. hope to move early july! #justanotherlinky

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  8. Ahh this is so lovely, really the dream for me... I don't currently have what you describe (although I'm very happy with where we are) but that sense of real belonging is so special. So glad you are enjoying it so much! #fortheloveofBLOG Lucy at occupation: (m)other

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  9. This is such a lovely post and I'm so glad to hear how happy and settled you are. Enjoy honey xx #justanotherlinky

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  10. so nice that you have a sense of community where you are. I think it is lacking in a lot of areas these days #fortheloveofblog

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  11. Awesome post! I can't wait until one day we cam buy... although in London it doesn't seem likely! You all look so happy in your pictures! #justanotherlinky

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  12. Do you think you've found your "forever" house? #justanotherlinky

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  13. Oh that sounds just absolutely perfect - to have that feeling must be amazing - you're so right about a house being a home but the place not feeling like home - I know that feeling!! Hope you continue to enjoy where you live for many years! #fortheloveofBLOG

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  14. sounds fantastic. We're pretty isolated where we are now, but I miss the days when I was younger and knew everybody in the neighborhood #justanotherlinky

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  15. I could feel the love for your new community through your words. That's really important. I have that sense of peace within my neighborhood as well and it makes a difference. So glad things are going well for you and the family. ~Lowanda

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  16. This is so lovely. We are still looking for somewhere to feel we belong I guess. Living so far from family (From Scotland originally) we struggle with feeling isolated and a bit homesick. Yes we have a few friends but it would be nice to have people we can rely on if need be or just to spend time with.

    Azaria- Being Mrs Lynch
    #justanotherlinky

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  17. This is lovely. So pleased for you after all the hassle. It's the best feeling when you are so in love with your house and the area. Having friends so close is amazing too. Thanks for hosting x

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  18. Sounds wonderful, I love our home but wish we were nearer friends. Enjoy your new home #justanotherlinky

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  19. Aww... Congratulations on your new house! I really can't wait to be able to get my own place either... one day... one day... I will get there. :) #justanotherlinky

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  20. Ah this is lovely - it's exactly how I feel about our house - our last place never felt quite right - it never felt like we really belonged there - like we were just using it as a stop gap even though we never intended it like that! I'm pleased you've found your forever home :) thanks for hosting #justanotherlinky

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  21. So pleased it's worked out for you - it took me about a year to come to terms with our last move - I did it for Misery Guts and the kids and it took a while for me to warm to our new environment! #justanotherlinky

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  22. So pleased it's worked out for you - it took me about a year to come to terms with our last move - I did it for Misery Guts and the kids and it took a while for me to warm to our new environment! #justanotherlinky

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  23. So pleased you have settled into your new home thanks for linking to the Binkylinky

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  24. Hi Kirsty, it sounds as if you've found your perfect family home and I hope you enjoy many happy years in the house.

    xx

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  25. sounds like a very happy new home you have there! congratulations on your new home #justanotherlinky

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  26. I think area makes a big difference to how much a person really feel at 'home'. It sounds like you have really settled in :) happy homemaking!

    #justanotherlinky

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  27. Congratulations on your new home! Such a lovely feeling to be settled once all of the bags and boxes are unpacked isn't it :) Enjoy making the house into a home - sounds like you've made a lovely start. Thanks for sharing on #fortheloveofBLOG x

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  28. What a happy post! Congratulations on the new home and hope you have a long and happy time there! #fortheloveofBLOG

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  29. Sounds like you settled really well in your new home! Congratulations! It makes a difference when you knew somebody already who lives nearby, isn't it? #mg

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  30. so thrilled for you! I can't believe how much our situations are alike right now, we moved in 3 weeks ago and now have friends popping in and a happy community, it feels great doesn't it! Thanks for sharing with #mg and enjoy your home xx

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  31. It's great that you have somewhere you feel like home! Plus friends down the road is ace! #MG

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  32. This is lovely to read. So nice that you feel settled and at home already! Thanks for linking to #picknmix

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  33. Love this :) Sounds like the way I feel about Cornwall, I'd love to be out in the sticks a bit more though in all honesty as handy as living in a biggish town is.

    Thanks for linking up to #PicknMix gorgeous

    Stevie xx

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  34. This is lovely, we had this in our own home. It was a cottage in a tiny little I'll age where everyone knew your name and cooed over babies and bumps. But once my second bump appeared we had to sell and move. Because the house prices in that area shot up we had to look further afield for our new home, we ended up moving away from friends and family and although I love our new town I deeply miss that sense of belonging and fuzziness for a home x

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